Here we go! Again! Darn, darn, darn!!
The Writer’s new PET scan was a tough start to the new year. We are so disappointed that the last round did not bring the results that we wanted, but the amazing Dr Wonderful has pulled another arrow out of his quiver, The Writer and The Prince agreed “Bring it ON” and she saddled up for the first round last Monday. I marvel at the attitude they share, of “Let’s go!”, not one minute of wallowing, not one minute of “Why us”, not one minute of “We don’t think we can do this again”. When I say we, The Prince is magical because he gives her the breath and focus to enjoy the ride.
Many people are asking me “How can I help?”, “How is she?”, “How can you take it?” The short answer is we live on the the 3Ps – prayer, positive attitude, an a power greater than our own.
The Prince immediately started planning – because he knows fun projects are part of their normal life. They enjoy planning. As an example, the night of the news, they went through some of the thousands of photos they took last year and picked out several to be blown up and put on their walls. They are both good photographers and capture so many moments. Going through photos is a BIG job. Reliving the joys we all shared last year is a positive.
The little girls rooms are babyish and so do not reflect their current 4 and 8 year old selves. So great discussions ensued, Greta is getting the bunk beds that she coveted that her sister had, and her mother had before that, and Maren is getting the double bed that Greta had and her mother before that. Both girls are thrilled and with it comes major closet re-organization, color changes, art changes, and purging of “clutter”. “Clutter” is in the eye of the beholder, and the task is “done in the cover of darkness”. Their band of friends are all stepping forward and we joked yesterday that they have a working bee scheduled for Saturday and it could all be done in 30 minutes. The Prince could not leave The Writers space out, so he is working on the nook in their bedroom as a quiet space. ” Gone” will be the ironing board, the pile of out of season clothes, and “stuff”. You know – we all have those spaces where stuff lands and you will get to it “one day”.
Spring vacations are in the works, summer vacations are in the works, birthday parties and friend visits are all in the works. There is so much fun in “Doing Today Well” and looking for ways to make sure we do many more days well. We even have a promise of an Aussie visit this Christmas! I was with The Writer yesterday and she looks great. The girls are continuing with all their activities, and their life seems no different to them. Chief Sister is planning overnights and dance parties and all kinds of silly fun stuff she does with them. Baby Sister is a constant companion by phone – complete with pet pictures she thinks are therapeutic. As a family, the love is pouring all over us. Thank you!
I have been trying to think of what I should say to The Writer about all of this. Words fail me. My own mother,The Matriarch, in her advanced age and diminished thinking capacity, tells us constantly how much she loves us. We know that, we have always known that, so saying it seems trite. The theme last Sunday for the reading was, “This is my Beloved Son in whom I am well pleased” Luke 3:22 I can’t say it any better. “You are my beloved daughter, in whom I am well pleased” Continue reading